5 Things to Keep Secret

We all have times in which we need and love to communicate our thoughts, feelings, or beliefs. In those times, we feel like we have to tell our secrets to have some sort of relief and validation. This can be a positive thing if you really trust the person and you believe in forever nonetheless discussing your personal information with the wrong people more often results in disappointments.

1-  Your Inner Wildest Thoughts

We all go through hard times in our life, and to be honest, maybe this how our wildest and weirdest thoughts are born with that being said inner thoughts are called inner for a good reason unless u trust the person enough to let him in your subconscious wonderland. Beliefs about karma and death for instance are not welcome in group chats.

2- Your Future Goals

One of the most delicate subjects to talk about with people or even the closest friends is future plans or goals. The reason why it's hard is that it doesn't align with our mental health or privacy.

        That means the secrecy of our plans is the secret of their success and beauty. 

Telling our goals to people means giving them the power to influence our future and possibly corrupt our sacred dreams. 

3- Family's Dirty Laundry 

It’s always wise to keep your family’s dirty laundry like a treasure hidden from nosy and drama greedy people who are almost percent of the population. So, if your family stories get twisted or even altered to a dramatic degree know that you are the one to blame. Patience is a key in such a situation for in addition to that as a consequence you might lose the respect of your colleagues, neighbors or even your closest narcissistic friends if the last had bad intentions for you from the start and were waiting to strike you at your weakest. If this is the case then do yourself a favor and leave the relationship while you can coz true friends stand by your side no matter what.

4- Financial Situation

Material belongings are always to keep to yourself in that bragging about what you got may hurt people who are in need of those things. Remember that modesty is the best policy for a  long-lasting healthy relationship. 

 5- Dark Past

It is advisable to keep the past in the past unless you have good memories to talk about. Keep in mind that past resentments could only bring to the table bad energy and more future resentments. Let it go and clear your aura from negative vibes. That’s what emotional intelligence is about.